Download or read book Shibari 101: Shibari Japanese Rope Bondage written by Jouichi Enomoto and published by . This book was released on 2021-03 with total page 32 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: For me, the methodical repetition and precise structure of rope bondage is calming. As a rope top, no matter what else is going on in my life, I have to be present to focus on the ties, the bottom I'm tying up, and the tone of the encounter. I get off on the bottom both giving up control and having fun.For a bottom, being restrained can also feel very calming. A lot of bottoms feel relaxed and blissed out while in rope. One told me: "I like giving over control to the top, letting them do whatever they want to me and feeling their power as they tie. I also really like the sensation; the pain and restriction feel exquisite." Another said: "As someone who gets off on giving up power/control, I really enjoy the psychological sensation of being restrained, as well as the challenge of persevering through discomfort. That feeling of someone else/the rope controlling how my body is able to move is freeing to me; I don't have to make decisions, I don't have to be in control, but in a safe context. It's soothing, and makes me feel focused and light and able to be very present."Playing with rope bondage is usually an emotionally intimate space to share. It can be rough and sexual, soft and non-sexual, or anywhere in between.